Some memories, some parts of our past, we can identify ourselves as the victim. The one who was wronged. The one who life was simply unfair to. Victimhood evokes an “oh woe’s me” attitude. It becomes a comfortable rut that the world is indeed out to pick on you; you weak, pathetic thing. I say …
The only reality in life is focus, privacy is an illusion. Everything is happening. Whether someone choose to share and even or not is irrelevant, it happened. If you chose to focus your efforts to uncovering details, the truth would be unearthed. From media distractions of governmental scandals to lil Susie gossiping behind your back …
I have lived in 6 states, 9 cities in the last 15 years. Why you ask? Good Question friend. Some moves were with purpose. I tried college in LA at first, but ended up in a rotating cycle of dropping out and returning for a number of years. Other moves were not of choice; I …
Why do I feel like a lazy sack after I downed a bag of smarties ? (Yes, one bag of smarties, meaning 20 individual smartie packs). First, I am not a sugar mama. I have never regularly craved sweets. I’ve never had a cavity. I am much more a savory lady, and I was quite …
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Why is it that when someone around us succeeds incredibly, our instinct is to recoil? Almost react defensively that this great accomplishment is not so great. When this happens, we are simply choosing the illusion of separateness over community. In truth, because we are all one – when one benefits, we all benefit. For a …
Simple expressions, “what you give your energy to persists”, illustrate this concept. In short, no and yes are equivalent to the universe, as they are both a strong input of energy. Hate is in fact not the opposite of love, but indifference. In this way, passion (whether through lust, hate, envy, etc.) can be transformed …
For me, energy has felt heavy lately. I have gotten things done, laughed, exercised, and looking forward to life in general, however still, things are tense. I feel as if walking through a foggy bog at dusk. The air is heavy and wet. I must push through with my hand before I can take a …
The art of asking questions is long last. The common form to ask a question is when you would like that question reversed on yourself. An example would be to ask a friend if they had plans for a trip or vacation when you are eager to share yours. This can go for positive qualities …
Change is the only constant. The only consistent thing about this life is we are inching closer and closer to our last day here, every minute, without fail. No vacations, no weekends. Change is always happening. No minute is the same as the previous. When we resist change. When we say, ‘I’m a creature of …
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Many years, I let my differences define me. Yes, I am unique. Yes, I am my own special person. However, defining myself as different only invited isolation. Who must you be if you always must be different? Finding community and connection because almost impossible because of the measuring tape one reaches for to check for …